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Taming the Time Monsters

 

Oh time, that elusive, twisty ticking that feels so intangible. Sometimes it flies. Sometimes it drags. Physicists attempt to explain its fluidity, that there is really only a present and that the past and future, because they only exist in our minds, are not real. Heady right? 

What I know is that mastering your time means mastering your life. 

I've learned I can slow it way down and I want to teach you to slow down, because we have a lot to accomplish in our days and get pulled inso many directions. The cruel trick is that we think we need to move faster, squeeze more in and multi-task the day away. But when we act in this way, we are at the end of a rope that is being tossed around uncontrollably. We are whipsawed. 

We don't even know what just happened to us, only that weare exhausted and spent. 

The real secret is slowing down, eliminating and doing one thing at a time until it is finished. And cultivating the ability to make fast decisions so that we are not spending so much time in our heads. 

Since this month's Wise Workshop is all about mastering time, setting SMART goals and knowing your personal vision, I thought we'd spend the next few weeks discussing some of these key strategies. If you have any time mastering tips to share, please do so on the Facebook Page! It's getting fun there, so come join us if you haven't already!

Slowing Down

To Resolve to not to...

 

I'm not quite sure how I feel about resolutions. I know we're supposed to assess our lives and decide what to take action on in the coming New Year, and I love the idea of visioning what we want to occur. But as one Wise Woman shared when I asked about the practice on Facebook, "resolutions born of realization and desire can work if you don't use them as a way to beat yourself up. In my experience, they work if you take baby steps. Some of mine have been effective. Some were just 'should's' that I didn't stick to."


I hate "should's" too. Besides, it gets boring having to resolve the same things every year... the same 10 pounds, the same debt paid off, the same promises to call our mothers more often.

What I love is the idea of the New Year. There is so much potential. So much opportunity. It's incredible, really, what can happen in the space of a year. Our children evolve before our eyes, and, hopefully so do we. Babies can be born, businesses can be born. We can take a small step that leads to a giant leap. 

Inspired Woman

 

You know her when you see her. She moves purposefully, her feet firmly on the ground. She is gracious, but doesn't make a lot of small talk. Her eyes light up when she speaks and she has a definite opinion. She is confident. She is vital. She is inspired.

Is she you?

It doesn't cost a thing to be inspired. We've seen stories of inspired women around the globe, some with significant financial resources, others with none.

The root meaning of the word inspire? "To breathe life into." Inspired women are full of life.

How do you get inspired? Many will tell you that you can read books or listen to motivational speakers. They will tell you a great story or send you a YouTube video. Maybe a quote?

Oh the things we take for granted...

Last week Julie introduced you to the Millennial Development Goals – the “TO-DO List” for the world – with the goal of eradicating global poverty.  Are they big goals? Yes, but achievable - especially if each of us figures out a way to engage, participate, chip in…. to take them on.

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